How to Keep Your Girlfriend Attracted to You

Author: Bagande (Photo credit: Wikipedia) How are you going to keep your girlfriend attracted to you once the initial attraction starts going to pieces?

The truth of the matter is that a balanced life consists of dating and relationships. I know for a fact that a lot of you guys are interested in much more than just how to create attraction. You want to keep it!

And granted, you definitely can't proceed to any level of success until you've got an idea of how to create that all-important sensation known as attraction with your girlfriend... but the flip side of this is that there's really no point in creating it in the first place unless you know what to do with it once you've got it.  Makes sense, right?

So once you've got it: How do you make that spark of attraction grow into the heat of passion?

The thing is, the fundamentals for creating attraction in the first place are different from the rules of thumb for maintaining her interest. The stuff you did to get something cooking with a woman must continue once you're actually in a relationship with her. It doesn't matter what the basis of your relationship is, whether you're casually dating each other or involved in an exclusive relationship. Once you've got something going, you've gotta take steps to make sure that things remain as good as they were in the beginning.

If that special lady seems to have lost her love for you, there are tiny little text messages you can use to get her back into your life and renew the romance. Check out this video, it's a good illustration of how a simple text message can bring her desire for you back... Bring Her Back With Text Messages

Now the real question is: How do you keep her desire for you?

First, here is an all-essential preventative measure. For heavens sake, don't pretend to be someone you're not, be sincere. This is where the question of honesty comes into play. As far as advice goes, this one sounds about as revolutionary as being told to eat your fruit and vegetables ... but you know what?

If you don't eat your veggies, you'll most likely experience an untimely death, at the premature end of a short and unhealthy life. Just bear with me for a second ... think of this like an analogy of what a relationship with a woman will be like if you aren't honest with her: short, unhealthy, riddled with disease, and ultimately dead before its time. Not to mention pretty damn uncomfortable to live through.

Here's why, relationships can't live without the attraction factor. Attraction is basically the lifeblood of any romantic relationship. Without it, things are just gonna shrivel up and blow away in the drought of "no sex".

Know what? If you act like the most attractive man in the world, even if you take on the role of the dude who's better than her wildest dreams, it's not sustainable. Sooner or later the "real you" is going to shine through and then what do you think is going to happen? Pffffft .... she's gone.

The kind of men that women stay attracted to aren't afraid to deal openly and honestly with challenges ... like actually saying something when they're annoyed or not happy with the way things are going. Please, no screaming or yelling.

So:

• Be honest about how you feel about the relationship.  
• If she's irritating you, call her out on it. 
• If she's acting out, let her know about it. 
• If she's done something that's offended you or that's given you pause or that you wish she wouldn't do again, tell her about it.

If the nail is in the coffin of your relationship, you do have a good possibility to turn it around. Try using the innovative and life-changing text methods outlined in Michael Fiore's text your girlfriend back into your life video.

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Can I Get My Girlfriend To Love Me Again?

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If you and your girlfriend have been together for a while you may have found that the excitement isn't what it used to be and you're just not sure she even loves you anymore. At times like this the one thing that keeps going through your mind is... can I get my girlfriend to love me again? This situation is common for those who have been together for a while. Just because your girl isn't as affectionate as she once was doesn't necessarily mean that she doesn't still love you.

Maybe she tired of waiting for you to pop the big question or wants more of a commitment from you. Her biological clock is ticking. Does she want to start a family? This is something you should find out.

Then again, people change over time, we all do. The problem is that when it comes to a relationship two people may not change in the same way. For instance, you both like to party every night of the week but lately she just doesn't seem interested, yet you still want to, this is a classic sign of two people maturing at different rates. In a case like this you must choose between her and you sowing your wild oats. Could it be best to just end the relationship and find someone who shares your interests? Not if you want her to love you again! You’re looking to arouse her love for you, right?

Sometimes relationship changes are unsettling but they don't have to be deal breakers. If you and your girl can talk and find some common ground you can not only re-ignite the passion in your relationship you can also find great new ways to spend time together.

Sometimes it's best to start at the beginning, as much as possible. Maybe you've both changed since you and your girlfriend have been together. Take stock of the way you conduct yourself and of the way you treat her. Can you honestly say that it's the same as it was when the two of you first met? Do you still do all the little things (hold the door, tell her you love her, compliment the way she looks, etc.) that you used to do? If not, consider doing those things again. She would still like you to make her feel special.

Would you like to go out and do the things the two of you used to do, or do you just want to lounge on the couch and watch television? She might simply be getting bored with you if you're not going to commit to your relationship.

When the two of you first met did you have a lot of dreams and ambitions? Do you still? If not, you may have lost some of the passion you had for life and that may have been one of the things she found so attractive about you when you first met. It might be good for you and your relationship to find some of that passion and ambition again.

If you're wondering; how can I get my girlfriend to love me again, you can start by evaluating your relationship. Honestly answering these questions can be a great way to start. Once you get a handle on the problem you'll have a much better time of coming up with solutions.

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How Can I Get My Ex-Girlfriend To Come Back To Me?

Image via WikipediaDo you find yourself asking this question? How can I get my ex-girlfriend to come back to me? Remember, it could be worse as you find yourself in this situation. It doesn't matter what happened between you and your girl, if you're willing to work at it you can get her to come back to you and the two of you can have a better relationship the second time around because you learn from your mistakes.

Consider these two steps:

These steps aren't difficult to do and yes, they do work. There are thousands of people who have used these steps to get their ex-lady friend back. Please understand that you will have to spend some time and effort because this process doesn't produce results overnight. It just won't happen unless you're willing to work for a successful relationship.

If you're looking for a quick fix, sorry, this isn't it. But, if you're looking for as close to a guarantee as you'll ever get in matters of the heart, than keep reading...

Step one is to step off. Give your girl a little space. If you keep texting or calling her than all you're going to do is let her know you will be a back up plan if she doesn't meet anyone else, you really don't want your ex to think of you that way, do you?

Step two is to man up. True, I don't know you or what you're like but we all have our issues and I'm sure you have yours. Those issues probably contributed to the relationship falling apart in the first place. It's time you own up to them and take some time to change them. If you are able to do this you'll be light years ahead of where you were before.

Once you've made much needed changes to the way you act, it's time to call your ex. Don't try to talk her into taking you back, just be friendly and casual and ask her if she'd like to get together just to catch up. Once the two of you are together, show her the changes you've made. Don't talk about it let her see for herself. When an encounter with her goes well, give her a few days before you call her again. See if she'd like to go out. Remember, at this point the two of you are starting all over again, so be willing to take it slow and let her see that the changes you've made are real.

Just because your girlfriend isn't as affectionate as she was in the past doesn't necessarily mean that she doesn't love you anymore. All living things need nourishment to thrive, including relationships.

This advice is simple but very effective as long as you are willing to put in some time and effort. In order for it to work you also have to be willing to face some things about the person you are and be willing to make some changes. If you can do these things you will find that you have answered the question, “How can I get my ex-girlfriend to come back to me?” Bring back the love, that's how.