7 Ways To Arouse Your Girlfriend’s Love For You

Image via WikipediaYou might be disappointed that your relationship doesn’t have the charm and romanticism that it once had. Frightened that this may affect or eventually end your relationship? You want to arouse your girlfriend's love for you but aren't sure how.

You’re not alone. Having the same partner for a long period of time can cause you to take one another for granted. As a result, the relationship may become stale and lose the spark that made it so special in the first place. Here are some simple, fun and creative ideas to ignite that charm and bring her love back:

1. Send her a surprise gift at work. Get a piece of paper and some crayons. Draw a bright childlike picture with a smiley sun and two stick figures holding hands. Add labels with your two names pointing to the stick figures. Write "I Love You" inside a heart.

Next get a large formal envelope. Place your drawing inside and type up a formal address label of your partner's workplace, such as: “For the immediate and urgent attention of: Your girlfriend's name, Suite 20, Collins & Herman LLC, NY.” Mail it to your partner so they receive it in the middle of a busy day.

2. Have fun with water. On a hot summer’s day, buy two large water pistols and take them with you. Pull them out and throw one to your girlfriend and then have a huge water fight.

3. Bring back childhood memories. Contact your partner's family and ask if there was anything she always wanted when she was a little girl. For example, if she always wanted a porcelain doll, buy one for her birthday. She will not only appreciate the gift, but also the fact that you were thoughtful enough to find out what she always wanted.

4. Become kids again. If you are walking by a park, visit the swings and give her a ride. This might bring back happy memories from childhood.

5. Organize a backyard picnic on a warm summer’s night. Spread a picnic blanket on the ground and get together some snacks, chocolates and champagne. Lie down on the blanket with your partner and gaze up at the stars together.

6. Show feeling for your partner. Leave a long-stem rose where your partner will find it, with a note on it saying: "Thank you for coming into my life."

Follow these steps in progression, if your girlfriend hasn't been aroused yet, this should do it. I've known of some instances where women became aroused at each and every step listed here. By now you both should be ready for the next step.

7. Spice up your lovemaking (if the opportunity presents itself). Probably the most profound way to rekindle the romance in your relationship is some frisky foreplay.

Surprise your partner with a little gift after you make love. Give your partner a sensual massage before or after, or just spend some time staring into each others eyes and caressing their bare skin.

Many people underestimate the power these little things have on a relationship. If times are rough in your relationship don’t wait for your girlfriend to do something, you take action. Make the first step towards mending your relationship. It’s all about passion. You need to show your love for her.

Talk about passion, you should visit... "How to keep the love of a woman" 

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