5 Reasons as to Why You’re Getting the Cold Shoulder and What You Can Do to Fix the Situation
Of course you probably already know that this is a tough question you've been asking yourself lately, "How to get my girlfriend to love me again?"There are a few possibilities that you should explore when coming up with an answer to your question. What's more the answers depend on your specific situation and circumstances.
No need to get excited, there are some powerful strategies that any man can apply towards gaining his girlfriend's love back.
First, you need to figure out why your girlfriend has stopped loving you (or why she says that she doesn't love you anymore, even if that may not be true).
What, you ask? Yes, there are some very common possibilities as to why she is not showing her love for you.
Do any of these reasons fit your situation?
1. I've lost my woman's love because I had an affair and she found out.
2. My lady found someone new that she feels is better than me.
3. Can you think of times when you haven't followed through with promises or agreements? Have you promised her that you will change your mental attitude or maybe some other matters that annoy her but haven't done so?
These kinds of annoyances will lead to disappointment and possible loss of hope on her part.
4. Is it possible that from her point of view, you've been neglecting her? Have you given her the love and attention she needs. You must give her the attention she needs if you want to win her back.
Women have a need to feel appreciated for the little things they do. They will usually respond with more love if they feel appreciated.
5. If you've tried to control everything she does, that is a huge mistake. Allow your girlfriend some freedom and space to do what she wants. Otherwise you will drive her away. I'm certain that you don't want that, am I right?
How to Fix the Situation...
Here's the story... Once you've identified the reason or combination of reasons, you can start to go to work on the problem. Many relationships fail because the real problems aren't understood there is too much misconception.
Not only that but one of the best ways to win back the love of your girlfriend is this... There are two people that you need to look at. The first is the person that you were when your girlfriend fell for you. The second is the person that you were when your girlfriend stopped loving you. If you can figure out what changed between these two people, you will have a recipe for reversal that can get you to look attractive once again to your ex-girlfriend.
3 different types of connections
In order to truly have a loving long term relationship you need to be connected in 3 ways... physically, spiritually, and emotionally. This is necessary for the success of any long term relationship. All people want to feel like they are accepted, understood, desired, and loved by their partners.
Communicate!
Communication is a major player in winning back your girlfriend’s love... Men think differently than women do, so even if you think you know how your girlfriend feels about something (because that's the way you feel), most likely you are wrong when you assume that you know how she feels about such and such. So talk to her and find out.
Without communication, it's really hard to resolve any kind of conflict, big or small. The right kind of communication will allow your damaged relationship to start recovering and later to thrive if you give your girlfriend the opportunity to share her dreams, concerns, hopes and desires with you.
Keep moving forward
If your girlfriend agrees to reunite with you, don't go back to what wasn't working. Keep things interesting, do little things to show her how much you love and appreciate her. Do something pleasantly surprising! Need some great date ideas?
Keep your promises. This is another important part of the equation. If you haven't kept your promises in the past, start doing so now. Your past broken promises have no doubt ruined the trust in your relationship but you can start repairing that now.
Finally, give your girlfriend the space and time she needs. Let her know that you are there for her but don't suffocate her.
I’m confident that you will use this information and start heading in the right direction to recover the love of your lady. You can also learn a couple unique but highly successful strategies for solving your concern of "how to get my girlfriend to love me" by visiting Magic of Making Up
