The Girl Friend (Photo credit: Wikipedia)How devoted are you toward your girlfriend?
If you and your girlfriend have been together for a while you may have found that the excitement isn't what it used to be and you're just not sure she even loves you anymore. At times like this the one thing that keeps going through your mind is... can I get my girlfriend to love me again? This situation is common for those who have been together for a while. Just because your girl isn't as affectionate as she once was doesn't necessarily mean that she doesn't still love you.
Maybe she tired of waiting for you to pop the big question or wants more of a commitment from you. Her biological clock is ticking. Does she want to start a family? This is something you should find out.
Then again, people change over time, we all do. The problem is that when it comes to a relationship two people may not change in the same way. For instance, you both like to party every night of the week but lately she just doesn't seem interested, yet you still want to, this is a classic sign of two people maturing at different rates. In a case like this you must choose between her and you sowing your wild oats. Could it be best to just end the relationship and find someone who shares your interests? Not if you want her to love you again! You’re looking to arouse her love for you, right?
Sometimes relationship changes are unsettling but they don't have to be deal breakers. If you and your girl can talk and find some common ground you can not only re-ignite the passion in your relationship you can also find great new ways to spend time together.
Sometimes it's best to start at the beginning, as much as possible. Maybe you've both changed since you and your girlfriend have been together. Take stock of the way you conduct yourself and of the way you treat her. Can you honestly say that it's the same as it was when the two of you first met? Do you still do all the little things (hold the door, tell her you love her, compliment the way she looks, etc.) that you used to do? If not, consider doing those things again. She would still like you to make her feel special.
Would you like to go out and do the things the two of you used to do, or do you just want to lounge on the couch and watch television? She might simply be getting bored with you if you're not going to commit to your relationship.
When the two of you first met did you have a lot of dreams and ambitions? Do you still? If not, you may have lost some of the passion you had for life and that may have been one of the things she found so attractive about you when you first met. It might be good for you and your relationship to find some of that passion and ambition again.
If you're wondering; how can I get my girlfriend to love me again, you can start by evaluating your relationship. Honestly answering these questions can be a great way to start. Once you get a handle on the problem you'll have a much better time of coming up with solutions.
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